What we measure, and what we don't claim.

The honest version

No questionnaire can predict who you'll be attracted to. Nobody's can: a study that measured over 100 traits before speed dates couldn't tell who would click. So we don't try. We find people who want the same kind of life and handle conflict in a compatible way, then let conversation decide the rest.

What's evidence, and what's our bet

Similar people are drawn to each other, and couples who are alike in personality report being happier. Those are findings. Matching on pace, money, time together and how you fight is our bet built on them, and the pilot is designed to test it: some matches are made without the score, so we can see whether it actually helps.

The Vector

The Gauntlet is 18 scenarios, three for each of six axes: Tempo, Traditionalism, Materialism, Autonomy, Expressiveness and Rationality. Each answer moves one axis. When your three answers on an axis disagree, we mark it "mixed" and lean on it less.

Who we pair

Five axes should match: pace, the life you want, money, how much time together feels right, and how you handle conflict. Small differences are ignored because they're mostly noise. The sixth, Rationality, works best with a little difference: one of you brings the plan, the other brings the heart.

What you see

Every match comes with why it works and where the friction is, in plain words. No compatibility percentages. Your archetype is for fun and for sharing; matching uses your six scores, never the label.

Dealbreakers are dealbreakers

Age range, kids, smoking and what you're looking for are never traded off against a good score.